Usually men are straightforward and self-confident, but as soon as they fall in love, they immediately radically change their behavior. If you are interested in a person, sort out his feelings to understand if he is in love or has a fleeting infatuation.
If you want to hear that you are loved, they will tell you. But this does not mean that the partner has real feelings. There are signs that help to understand whether a man is in love or only imitates feelings.
Pay close attention to the movements of the hands and eyes of your chosen one and you will determine how sincere he is when talking about falling in love.
A man in love is tense in your presence. He worries all the time and does not seem to know where to put his hands. He then hides them in his pockets, then unconsciously twists some little thing in them.
This behavior does not yet speak of great love, but a feeling of light falling in love is probably present.
It is easy to understand by the eyes whether a man has interest or sympathy. How to determine the fall in love by the look of a man:
- he stares into the eyes, as if trying to understand something;
- catches your eye all the time;
- sometimes, if you catch his gaze, he abruptly averts his eyes to the side.
This behavior indicates a strong interest in the woman. It allows you to take a step back – let him know that you are pleased with his attention, and you have nothing against dating.
A man in love is very attentive to all the details associated with his beloved woman. He remembers her words, desires, every little thing concerning her is important to him.
He clearly remembers everything that he managed to learn about the subject of his love – his favorite music, what kind of coffee she prefers, what flowers he likes, etc.
Men resort to compliments easily and naturally. To distribute them to the right and to the left, they do not need to have high feelings at all. To distinguish a banal desire to strike up an affair from sincere feelings, show attention – it is important how exactly compliments are delivered to you.
A man in love, pronouncing phrases praising your appearance, wit or other qualities, is sure to try to touch you. One of the sure signs of a man’s love is an irresistible desire to touch a girl and look into her eyes.
Falling in love inspires a man to act chivalrous. He is always on the alert – just waiting to help and show concern. Any, the smallest problem that worries the object of his love concerns him.
Man Giving Flowers
A person in love is ready to rush at your first call to the end of the world. He will get, bring, find, protect, decide – the list of verbs can be continued indefinitely. All he needs at this stage is your smile and happy eyes.
The nuances of communication
Take a close look at the manner of communication of the man whose attitude interests you. Falling in love is indicated by sudden pauses in conversation and confused speech. He often feels awkward and blushes – such signs indicate a sincere interest.
A man in a state of love at first tries to carefully hide his true feelings. He is afraid to become vulnerable, to hear ridicule or refusal to communicate. He really appreciates the opportunity to be around, so he worries.
- tension and excitement;
- redness of the face, embarrassment, nervous gestures;
- speaks quickly, indistinctly, trembling often creeps in his voice.
Confident men, seeing an interesting woman, never give up open flirting. Do not take this as a “naked pickup”, because a person may not have any other way to get to know each other.
If you often meet in some places (gym, pool, office, etc.), then a man may find an extraordinary method of dating. In other cases, flirting is a perfectly justified way to establish a relationship and an eloquent indicator of interest.
Finding reasons to meet
A person in love always finds a reason to see you. The one who only uses you, meets with you when it is convenient / wants to, always look for reasons that “do not allow” him to meet with you. A person interested in you, on the contrary, is looking for any ways to meet.
A man who is in love necessarily offers joint pastime ideas. If he has any hobby, he tries to introduce you to it, as he wants to share with you the best that he has.
Trying to get better
Men in love seem elated. Some want to write poetry in honor of their beloved, others strive to become better. They do this not for the sake of praise, but out of special love inspiration and the desire to be worthy of their chosen one. Many men, having fallen in love, easily quit smoking or drinking alcohol.
The passion for wine and tobacco fades against the background of the feelings experienced by a man in love, therefore, refusal of temptations is given to him without any problems. A person feels endless gratitude to the lady of his heart for the fact that acquaintance with her allowed him to triumph over his weaknesses.