I\\\’m a 17 year old girl. No matter what I do, I want to be perfect at it instantly. For example I always liked to draw, but I haven\\\’t drawn in like 2 years because as soon as I start the drawing, I notice it looks bad and I give up for another few months. Same goes for playing piano. I start learning a song, but after a maximum of 3 days I give up because I\\\’m learning it too slowly. When I want to learn a dance choreography, I give up after 30 minutes and cry because I can\\\’t do it. I expect to be perfect instantly at everything I do. I am not a spoiled person or someone who doesn\\\’t want to put effort in things, but I\\\’m way too harsh on myself, which results in giving up very easily. I\\\’m so unhappy because of this, so does anyone have any advice?