Ever since I was young it has always been my dream to become a singer and I’m good at it too. My mother has a good voice but I didn’t as a child, instead I worked on it and now I’m in my teens. I’ve Improved a lot.
I have been trying for the korean industry (termed as kpop) which is super hard to get into. And well there exists a no dating rule.
I have a boyfriend and well he hates the industry. He calls it fake. He says that he dosent like the idea of me belonging to the fans (like all idols in the industry do). He has never been supportive.
And well it hurts, because I don’t have many people to turn to and then everytime I start the conversation we just end up arguing.
He says that since he’s willing to let go of his dreams for me, he expects the same from me.
And I didn’t wanna disappoint him so I said I’d consider changing my mind but in truth, I don’t want to.
I really love him and I don’t want things to end just because of something like this.
So should I just compromise and forget my dreams which is something I’ve been doing my whole life (This is the very reason my mother wasn’t able to become a singer)
Or should I talk to him about it?
And what should I say…?